![]() |
Faith411.com - Inspirational |
|
|
|
Vital information and articles related to inspiration.The Power of the Tongue
There is an old proverb with a lot of wisdom. It says, "The tongue has the power of life and death, and whoever loves it will eat its fruit." It is so true. What we say has the ability to create situations, emotions, and thoughts in others. A kind word helps people, negative words hurt - sometimes for a very long time. Most of the time we think of this concept in relation to how we treat others and that is good. In fact, I wrote an article in the last month or so called "The Power of Praising People." If you missed it, you can get it at the website. But here I want to talk about this concept in relation to ourselves. How does what we say affect us? Tremendously. There is a simple principle here. Only say things that will create in you positive emotions, thoughts, feelings, and ultimately, actions. Let me give you a good example. We do not allow the words "I can't" in our house. Why? Because we CAN! The very minimum is "I'll try." We ask our kids to say "I'll try." If we allow our kids, or ourselves, to fall into the trap of saying "I can't," guess what? We won't! And that's not good, is it? Do you tell yourself negative thoughts during the day? Most of us can fall into that temptation, can't we? I was working the other day and I was brewing over something bad that had happened and I was just getting bent out of shape. So I stopped, realized I had the power to choose what I was saying to myself and began to think about and tell myself good things. And my day changed for the better. Have you ever been in your backswing on the golf course and said to yourself, "I am going to shank this one." What happens? You shank it. This actually happens to me. So what do I do? I stop my backswing, reset myself, and tell myself I am going to hit it straight down the fairway. What happens? About half the time I hit it straight, the other half, I shank it, but increasing your ability is a future article! At the very least I increase my chances of performing better. Bad thoughts almost guarantee my failure, while good thoughts increase my chances for success dramatically. A salesman may see someone walk through his door and say to himself, "I'm not going to be able to make this sale." I can't. I won't. Some of us aren't even aware that we talk negatively to ourselves. Take some time today to think about what you say to yourself. Maybe ask a close friend if you have this habit. If you find yourself doing this, it is time to change! Now, don't get me wrong. Self-talk is not a substitute for effort and ability, but it is a strong helping factor. Find some simple phrases that will help you get through the day with more success. Whatever your situation or work is, I am sure there are specific things you can say that will build you up and stick you on the road to success! The words that you use and the conversations you have with yourself create things in you. They can create positive things or negative things. It is our choice. The tongue has the power of life and death. This is why it is so important to be diligent in using the power of the tongue to create a positive force in our lives. Remember, your tongue has power. Use it! About The Author: Chris Widener is a popular speaker and writer as well as the President of Made for Success, a company helping individuals and organizations turn their potential into performance, succeed in every area of their lives and achieve their dreams. To see Chris "live" at the upcoming Jim Rohn Weekend Event as he speaks on the subject of Secrets of Influence go to http://Chris-Widener.InspiresYOU.com/ or call 800-929-0434.
MORE RESOURCES: table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/0-0fd=Rurl=http://www.kdhnews.com/news/story.aspx%3Fs%3D28542cid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNGzNgj8VByPJ3thG1mLrRLdvlg7WwTatenda Tavaziva#39;s journey to and at UMHB an binspirational/b story/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fKilleen Daily Herald,nbsp;TXnbsp;-/font nobr4 hours ago/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1Tatenda Tavaziva attends a football game at the University of Mary Hardin-Baylor. The current student body president arrived at the school in January 2005 b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/1-0fd=Rurl=http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/CU0810/S00122.htmcid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNF-LJgLYTE_XthdJFGtjqhqJH2ZbA500 $1 return airfares for binspirational/b Kiwis/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fScoop.co.nz (press release),nbsp;New Zealandnbsp;-/font nobr15 hours ago/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1Well, we want to show our Aussie friends what makes us Kiwis special by giving away 500 $1 return fares to binspirational/b Kiwis making a difference in our b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd width=80 align=center valign=topfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifa href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2i-0fd=Rurl=http://www.boston.com/ae/movies/articles/2008/10/10/express_doesnt_stray_from_safe_playbookcid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNEddAVvwD-PAP5kzInlEh2l1OzcbAimg src=http://news.google.com/news?imgefp=LiDmvJjFrOYJimgurl=cache.boston.com/resize/bonzai-fba/Globe_Photo/2008/10/09/1223599447_1057/539w.jpg width=80 height=52 alt= border=1brfont size=-2Boston Globe/font/a/font/tdtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2-0fd=Rurl=http://www.canada.com/surreynow/news/whatson/story.html%3Fid%3Dd1e67b7b-a2d4-47fd-a143-e4b599cfc116cid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNEh169u07T5I2zliDWC902voHnWagA ball of binspirational/b predictability/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fSurrey Now,nbsp; Canadanbsp;-/font nobrOct 10, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1b.../b Gary Fleder#39;s extensive use of close-ups. bInspirational/b? Check. Predictable? Yep. But The Express is a safe bet for sports fans and non-cynics alike./fontbrfont size=-1a href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2-1fd=Rurl=http://www.dailyherald.com/story/%3Fid%3D241604cid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNGOK7ypfcmepFg-bdSo0kt2cC9ZzAFootball drama a genuine binspirational/b tale/a font size=-1 color=#6f6f6fnobrChicago Daily Herald/nobr/font/fontbrfont size=-1a href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2-2fd=Rurl=http://www.boxofficeprophets.com/tickermaster/listing.cfm%3FtmID%3D2818cid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNGOTr2Jojzn5MxEqiQbTE6kTlE5BwThe Express/a font size=-1 color=#6f6f6fnobrBox Office Prophets/nobr/font/fontbrfont size=-1a href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2-3fd=Rurl=http://www.ecollegetimes.com/news/2008/10/09/Movies/Review.The.Express-3479781.shtmlcid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNELemLvkdM4NMKBpnjkKWrDcDNg6gReview: The Express/a font size=-1 color=#6f6f6fnobrCollege Times/nobr/font/fontbrfont size=-1 class=pa href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2-4fd=Rurl=http://www.filmthreat.com/index.php%3Fsection%3Dreviews%26Id%3D11252cid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNFxoX9AETGbALjxyc6kAYpDws6_SwnobrFilm Threat/nobr/anbsp;- a href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/2-5fd=Rurl=http://lakeconews.com/content/view/5893/768/cid=1255039742ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNH_0XKGOP5udYauq2HvCYz5eXzrgQnobrLake County News/nobr/a/fontbr/font class=p size=-1a class=p href=http://news.google.com/news?sourceid=navclientie=ISO-8859-1rls=GGLG,GGLG:2005-22,GGLG:enncl=1255039742hl=ennobrall 471 news articles/nobr/a/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd width=80 align=center valign=topfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifa href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/3i-0fd=Rurl=http://www.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/swerve/story.html%3Fid%3D0982c085-420c-4b1d-a095-2f284714da1ccid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNGasUqoqwJm3GwnTJp2tn3teEYlzQimg src=http://news.google.com/news?imgefp=82qOA1jEwUEJimgurl=a123.g.akamai.net/f/123/12465/1d/media.canada.com/idl/cahr/20081010/128316-46511.jpg%3Fsize%3Dl width=80 height=80 alt= border=1brfont size=-2Calgary Herald/font/a/font/tdtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/3-0fd=Rurl=http://www.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/swerve/story.html%3Fid%3D0982c085-420c-4b1d-a095-2f284714da1ccid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNGasUqoqwJm3GwnTJp2tn3teEYlzQA new generation of icky, angsty, binspirational/b books for teens b.../b/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fCalgary Herald,nbsp; Canadanbsp;-/font nobrOct 10, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1Sure, they text and they Twitter and they play way too much Wii. But all those twitchy, tormented adolescent souls are still able to lose--and then b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/4-0fd=Rurl=http://www.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/swerve/story.html%3Fid%3D4f48bffb-c488-47e1-99bc-032d457c352ecid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNFsOm41oke2QOcLMDbAZ9G8GiXKkgA new generation of icky, angsty, binspirational/b books for teens b.../b/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fCalgary Herald,nbsp; Canadanbsp;-/font nobrOct 10, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1by Hunter S. Thompson In high school my best buddy Gavin and I fancied ourselves literary snobs. We read Dostoevsky--he was our favourite--and Tolstoy and b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/5-0fd=Rurl=http://www.argusleader.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article%3FAID%3D/20081011/LIFE/810110312/1004cid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNFj7z_sy2yFHSmWZI-hR0KV9s0sIwMarriage supporters#39; fundraiser brings binspirational/b film b.../b/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fSioux Falls Argus Leader,nbsp;SDnbsp;-/font nobrOct 11, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1Moviegoers can credit a group interested in promoting healthy marriages for bringing the binspirational/b movie quot;Fireproofquot; to Sioux Falls for a weeklong b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/6-0fd=Rurl=http://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/3748208._Inspirational__Blackburn_mum_of_seven_dies__34/cid=1256390049ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNG77_Fl2hkbASKpF72Mw8LtJhOCQw#39;bInspirational/b#39; Blackburn mum-of-seven dies, 34/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fLancashire Telegraph,nbsp;UKnbsp;-/font nobrOct 11, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1By Catherine Pye » Four weeks ago she was given six months to live. Charmaine had drawn up a wish list of things she wanted to do with her final days, b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/7-0fd=Rurl=http://www.marketwatch.com/news/story/without-quarter-my-pocket-new/story.aspx%3Fguid%3D%257B7C5AD198-AAD6-412F-ADE8-009ABF5FBDE2%257D%26dist%3Dhpprcid=1255491471ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNETjy3_hT6h7pQgcbE7Ht2slj95Nw#39;Without a Quarter in My Pocket#39;: New Memoir Chronicles Cuban b.../b/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fMarketWatchnbsp;-/font nobrOct 8, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1SALEM, Ill., Oct 08, 2008 /PRNewswire via COMTEX/ -- Dr. Secundino E. Rubio#39;s life is a series of binspirational/b stories. From his childhood in pre-Castro b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/8-0fd=Rurl=http://www.stjohns.edu/academics/pr_aca_081010.stjcid=0ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNHm0yDUD5QIXZcRBMTswwCg0TpqLwbInspirational/b Speaker Teaches Students the Value of “Zing!”/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fSt. John's University,nbsp;NYnbsp;-/font nobrOct 10, 2008/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1b.../b Your Influence and was featured in the motivational speaker compilation Lessons from the Road: bInspirational/b Insights by Leading Speakers in Education. b.../b/font/div/font/td/tr/table table border=0 width= valign=top cellpadding=2 cellspacing=7trtd width=80 align=center valign=topfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifa href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/9i-0fd=Rurl=http://www.skysports.com/story/0,19528,11095_4165834,00.htmlcid=1256305246ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNGe8bWCl3qagmF1RhOFS29pGeurHgimg src=http://news.google.com/news?imgefp=zLjUcasx3t0Jimgurl=img.skysports.com/08/08/218x298/David-Moyes-scratches-head-Everton-v-Portsmou_1156103.jpg width=59 height=80 alt= border=1brfont size=-2SkySports/font/a/font/tdtd valign=top class=jfont style=font-size:85%;font-family:arial,sans-serifbrdiv style=padding-top:0.8em;img alt= height=1 width=1/divdiv class=lha href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/9-0fd=Rurl=http://ukpress.google.com/article/ALeqM5iB8HZ1uJELBAUWM6cQnV2ySL4DJAcid=1256305246ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNHx9cv0Yv0jrdDn9Dhk6DgPTM7k9gMoyes inspired by Robson/abrfont size=-1font color=#6f6f6fThe Press Associationnbsp;-/font nobr8 hours ago/nobr/fontbrfont size=-1David Moyes has admitted he once felt he may have spent quot;too longquot; at Everton - but changed his mind after an quot;binspirational/bquot; talk from Sir Bobby Robson. b.../b/fontbrfont size=-1a href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/9-1fd=Rurl=http://www.clubcall.com/everton/moyes-admits-quit-thoughts-798707.htmlcid=1256305246ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNH2NzewzYmuz8WmVVICI5NXxWcLgQMoyes admits to quit thoughts/a font size=-1 color=#6f6f6fnobrClubcall/nobr/font/fontbrfont size=-1a href=http://news.google.com/news/url?sa=Tct=us/9-2fd=Rurl=http://www.dailystar.co.uk/football/view/54334/Sir-Bobby-talked-me-out-of-quitting-Goodison-Park/cid=1256305246ei=oBbySNu2Mou-9gSht-SzBwusg=AFQjCNEFUNEUvr9MYQM-F6HFSKPmbBTuYASIR BOBBY TALKED ME OUT OF QUITTING GOODISON PARK/a font size=-1 color=#6f6f6fnobrDaily Star/nobr/font/fontbrfont class=p size=-1a class=p href=http://news.google.com/news?sourceid=navclientie=ISO-8859-1rls=GGLG,GGLG:2005-22,GGLG:enncl=1256305246hl=ennobrall 169 news articles/nobr/a/font/div/font/td/tr/table Inspirational - Google News |
RELATED ARTICLES
Keep On Believing It has been said that a man is what he eats. Someone else said that a man is what he reads. Sixty-Second Caring "How are you doing?" you ask. There's a pause before the reply. Get Out Of Your Own Way One of the biggest obstacles to our self growth and personal development is.. Just Think of Kyle! This morning at 5:22am to 6am, I was overwhelmed. Overwhelmed is an understatement considering I am still crying and it's like 7:15am. Dont Ever Give Up There is a reason I never gave up. A reason I never will give up my hope, my dreams, my desire to live. Energy Work Basics Part 1: So What is Energy? Everything is made of energy. Atoms, molecules, light, sound and color have energy. Anam Chara - Healing the Heart Matters Are you prepared to make your heart matter? Are you prepared to feel whole, happy and healed of any heartache?It does not surprise me our hearts are not whole (the root meaning of the word "heal"). We are taught throughout our unbalanced educational system to avoid our feeling centre. The Power of A.S.K.ing Have you ever had the opportunity to follow-up on a sales lead? Recently, I had such an opportunity to reconnect with an organization that I had been trying to secure as a client. Due to some new events and after multiple unreturned phone calls, I decided to ask for the decision maker within the department. The Art of Letting Go It has been six months since I left the corporate world - and there are some things I will always miss. Like saying good morning to colleagues on my way to the office where I worked every day. The Pledge You know kids, one of the things I've learned by letting more people know what's going on inside my head is that once you do people expect you to live up to what you've put out there. I've sort of learned on the fly here that using this knowledge as a burr under the saddle that is my life accelerates my growth. Anamcara - Being Forever Enough When was the last time you felt you were enough just as you are? When was the last time you felt that you were seen as the being you are? When was the last time you felt unconditionally loved and loving?When was the last time you felt life was itself enough? There was nothing to be added. There was nothing to be taken way. 7 Strategies To Make Room For Money Laws of the Attraction notwithstanding, there are several external ways that you can make room for more money in your life.Yes, there are those of you who can manifest whateveryou want, whenever you want. Tranquility It's all in the mind- your mind.It's not brought about in an instant by serenesurroundings,nor by the sound of soulful music,nor the beauty of summer blooms. The Final Frontier When all that you have done has not brought you what you truly desire, isn't it about time to move out of the box ask questions and make changes?What would you think if you went to your doctor and he hit you over the head with a rubber hammer to knock you out before some minor surgery? Does the horse and buggy now serve you to take you to work each day? Would you settle for going down town to the telegraph office, to have a message sent to your aunt across the country? Could you possibly get along without your cel phone, fax machine or microwave oven?The answer is "of course not." We have evolved and our world is moving much too quickly to rely on out dated technology to serve us. A Rush Home to Rapture Riding a rush, being juiced, flying high-this is the feeling we strive for every day.What's the huge attraction to this heightened state? Many medical authorities would have us believe that the desire for a constant high is an addiction-and an unhealthy and unrealistic one at that. Repeat Offender Direct Answers - Column for the week of July 8, 2002I am a 26-year-old escort, in the business on and off since I was 14. I have a tendency to get involved in very bad relationships. Faith Like a Child Jonathan:This is my brother, Jonathan. They walked into the room together, one limping as he walked, the other patiently walking by his side. Dreams and Desires, Wants and Wishes Journals Have you ever dreamed of a new house? Have you ever wished for the perfect mate? What about wanting that job that you've always dreamed of? Have you wished for a perfect day?We all have dreams and desires, our own personal wishes and wants. What if?what if you could just have what you wanted and wished for? What would that house look like, feel like? How would you decorate it? Is it a condo, or on acres of land? Are there animals? Who are your neighbors? Do you have parties? What color is your house painted? How is it furnished? Who lives there with you?Your perfect mate, is how tall, what color hair, what religion? How did you meet? Are you married? Do you have children?What is your dream job? What state are you living in? What are your hours? What do you do? Whom do you work with?What does your perfect day look like? What do you do, where do you go? Whom are you with?Think about what your wishes and dreams are. Healing The Abandonment Wounds I have counseled individuals, couples, families and business partners for the past 35 years and authored eight published books. Every individual I've worked with has had some abandonment wound to heal, and most relationship problems stem from abandonment wounds. Is the Life Youre Living the Life You Want? In pre-revolutionary Russia, a rabbi was walking to the synagogue. A Russian soldier stopped him and asked, "Who are you and what are you doing here?" The rabbi answered, "How much do they pay you for doing this job?" The soldier replied, "Twenty kopeks. |
|
Inspirational Articles Home Page | Inspirational Articles Site Map | News | Faith411.com Home Page EZmatic.com | IgoJo | UpBee | Blue Ryder | Health | ZippyGo | Ken J Wagner Faith411.com - all Vital information and articles related to Inspirational. |
| © 2006 |